Making A Holiday Plan

The holidays are right around the corner and often can be a very difficult and emotional time if you are going through a divorce or separation, especially if you have children. Managing the many holiday demands including school programs, various events, buying gifts, and helping your children cope with the perceived loss of their family unit, can be overwhelming, onerous, and very emotional. Although it may seem like an insurmountable obstacle, it is possible to enjoy the holidays and create new positive memories for you and your children. Here are some tips for a happier and healthier holiday season amidst your divorce or separation:

H – Have a plan. Think ahead, discuss and create a holiday parenting time schedule with the other parent at the commencement of the proceeding. This will help you avoid any miscommunications or misunderstandings with regard to a holiday schedule and will help reduce the stress of the logistics and any travel plans. It is important to