5 Things To Bear In Mind When You Attend Mediation

In support of Family Mediation week, we outline 5 things to bear in mind when you attend mediation.

These points may not come easily if you haven't been getting on with your ex but, if you keep them in mind, you are more likely to reach a successful outcome in mediation.

1. Aim to say as many positive things as possible about the other person. If you set a positive example, it will set a positive tone and invite a positive response.
2. Use language which is all about us and our; not me and yours. This is particularly important when speaking about your children as you will continue to be their parents even though you are separating but it is also helpful when discussing finances as you will need to consider your combined financial resources when working out a settlement.