Individuals displaying narcissistic personality traits may have
an inflated belief in their own self-importance, often need
constant admiration and reinforcement from others, do not handle
criticism or rejection well, and have an overall sense of
entitlement. If you live with a narcissist, you already know this,
and these traits may be some of the reasons why you are seeking a
divorce. However, divorcing a narcissist can be tricky.
If you indicate any level of dissatisfaction in your marriage,
the narcissist feels rejected. The belief will be that you are the
one that has the problem, not the narcissist, making you feel as if
all the issues in the marriage are all about you. This is why
marriage counseling is so difficult when narcissists, particularly
undiagnosed ones, refuse to recognize their own problems.