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ARTICLE · 26 MAY 2023

Rich Friend, Poor Friend

Money. Some days, it seems simple enough. We trade our time and skills for it, then trade it for things to eat and a place to sleep. But other days?

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Money. Some days, it seems simple enough. We trade our time and skills for it, then trade it for things to eat and a place to sleep. But other days? Money can get really, really weird. Take our friend J, for example, who forgets their wallet when out with K. K foots the bill, enthusiastically too, until three months later when the debt's still unpaid, but K feels too uncomfortable to bring it up. Suddenly what began as fifteen dollars balloons in significance, a dime here to represent the fact that J's new job pays him more than K's does, a quarter there becomes a symbol of the fact J's even looking at condos.

The point is that financial matters between friends can get awkward fast, especially in our 20s and 30s when a formerly egalitarian peer group may see its members begin to earn higher salaries for the first time, but not necessarily at the same rate. We'd all like to think that money could never get in the way of our personal relationships—it's just money,

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