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ARTICLE · 02 AUGUST 2016

The wedding's off! Who keeps the ring?

Ms P received a "conditional gift" - the engagement ring would only become her property after the marriage took place.

AustraliaFamily and Matrimonial

Beyonce sung about "putting a ring on it" but what happens to the engagement ring when the wedding is called off? The issue of who keeps the ring can be a contentious one with perceptions about who is the rightful owner guided by convention, tradition, morality or that the former bride-to-be automatically keeps it! However, perceptions between the parties don't always marry (pun intended) and in these instances, the Court steps in.

Disputes about the ring usually arise when one person in a 'cathartic release' (as it has been described to me) disposes of the engagement ring – symbolically throwing it into the ocean (or another body of water), melting it down to create a new piece of jewellery or selling it. The other person then seeks its return or monetary compensation equal to its value.

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