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ARTICLE · 14 MARCH 2025

Doing The Difficult Thing: Parenthood And The Importance Of Support Systems

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I have a very young daughter who not only graduated law school with me but also conquered the bar exams and is now an honourary articling student with the 2024/2025 cohort.

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Nur Al Ebeid
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In honour of International Women's Day 2025, I am reflecting on a question I am often asked.

I have a very young daughter who not only graduated law school with me but also conquered the bar exams and is now an honourary articling student with the 2024/2025 cohort. The question I frequently get is: How did you manage it all without delaying any part of the journey?

There was no special formula to doing this – like any difficult thing in life, having a strong support system can be the difference between reaching the finish line and burning out by the midpoint.

I knew, going into motherhood, just like going into law school, that it would not be without its challenges. What I also knew— perhaps more importantly— is that I could succeed because I had my determination, and the support of those around me. If it's something you truly want, it can be something you achieve. For me, it was a simple equation of input for output. The input was both my own internal

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